Entries from September 2007 ↓
September 19th, 2007 — Grief, Podcast
Today marks the 6th anniversary of 9/11. Why do we still invest so much time and energy into commemorating the dead? Because sudden death almost always complicates the healing process. Ritual facilitates healing; often when ritual is missing, griever’s get stuck. Rituals don’t have to be expensive or lengthy or involve anyone else. They can be simple but simultaneously so powerful. We will all experience the loss of someone we love.
Zanny’s brother, Rob, was killed in an American Eagle plane crash on Halloween Day, 1994. Nine months later, her mother-in-law, Nelly, was murdered. Zanny is certified from the American Academy of Bereavement as a grief-support group facilitator, she has published her work on grief, and presented to numerous groups and organizations.
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September 18th, 2007 — Kids, Podcast
Frustrated mom leaves a vm. Her 5 year-old son who was potty trained is wetting the bed. He doesn’t want to wear pull-ups and mom doesn’t want to shame him (Thank Goodness!) How does a mom handle this one? First question: What’s going on in little one’s environment? Next question, could be physical… Listen and learn.
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
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September 17th, 2007 — Personal News
I will be arriving in Ontario, Ca. on Friday. If you would like to get together, please email me at zanny@dearzanny.com
September 16th, 2007 — Relationships, Podcast
The woman from TX left a vm and said my advice worked….phew! I love it when that happens! She was frustrated, confused and hurt when her new romantic interest put the brakes on and said, “We’re going to be OK, but I need to take things more slowly.” That’s always an ouch. She wanted to be the “cat” and do some pursuing/chasing ~ always a big no-no; why? Because the mouse almost always escapes. Don’t get stuck in this common relationship dynamic - listen and learn.
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 14th, 2007 — Personal News
I am going! I hope to see you there.
September 8th, 2007 — Kids, Podcast
A concerned mom emails Zanny. Mom asks advice regarding her 13 year-old daughter who recently has begun to lie - even about silly things. Mom isn’t usually punitive but wants this behavior to stop. What should she do? Is it a phase, or something more serious? Listen to find out!
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 6th, 2007 — Grief, Podcast
A caller asks: My dog, Molly, died of cancer several months ago, we were constant companions. I still miss her. My friends and some family members think I’m silly. Am I normal to still feel so sad? Answer: Yes! Pet loss hurts. We become so attached to our beloved animals - regardless what species it may be. However, to rule out if your grief needs some professional intervention, listen to be sure. Talk To Me! Call me at 678-884-0524. Email me: Zanny@DearZanny.com. Do you need relationship advice? Call Zanny. Let’s talk! Blessings to one and all. love, Zanny
September 4th, 2007 — Divorce, Relationships, Kids, Podcast
A listener is in a new marriage - a second one. Her new step daughter is difficult and sulky. This is a classic “pursuer-distancer” (or “cat and mouse game”) relationship dynamic. The one person pursues while the other RUNS! Guess who has the power? Answer: The one doing the running. Avoid this common dynamic by taking a firm-but-gentle stance. Listen how…
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 4th, 2007 — Biz Relationships, Podcast
A caller asks: My boss is hitting on me - and I’m not interested! He doesn’t seem to hear me. I really love my job - but this is really stressing me out! HELP! Listen on how to protect yourself and your career …
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 3rd, 2007 — Siblings, Family, Relationships, Podcast
A listener writes about her sister who constantly competes and engages in 1-Up-manship. This type of interaction can occur with anyone. How can you handle this without feeling deflated and defensive? It’s easy - and after you’ve done it you will walk away smiling - and so will the other person! Do it with style - listen how…
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 1st, 2007 — Grief, Podcast
Addendum to previous show. This weekend marks the 10-year anniversary of Princess Diana’s death. How can someone we’ve never met reduce us to tears? Ask yourself: Where have I ever felt this way before? When you can answer that, you will know. Many times, new death resurrects previous losses. So, even when it’s someone you’ve never met before, if it feels similar to previous loss you’ve had - it will touch old wounds and you will get an emotional ZAP! It’s normal.
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
September 1st, 2007 — Self Care, Family, Biz Relationships, Relationships, Podcast
Many of us are “pleasers” we never want to hurt anyone’s feelings, or say the forbidden “no” - but this comes at a high emotional price tag - our sanity! Listen on how to gently, but firmly put boundaries in place without feeling guilty - but empowered! You can do it : )
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Blessings to one and all.
love, Zanny
