Self Deprication: Humility or Inferiority?

I went to the gym this morning.  Yep, I did the 10:30 a.m. centergery class with some of my girlfriends.  I noticed a woman in front of me.  She had lovely legs.  Since I’m nearly 47 years-old, my legs certainly aren’t what they used to be!  I only wish I would have appreciated what I had when it looked great.  So, after class I approached the woman, who is probably a decade younger than I.  I said, “You have such beautiful legs!”  she undramatically responded, “Oh, huh…  Thanks, but they have a lot of scars from sports injuries…”  Was her response humility or her own sense of inferiority?  I suspect the later.  Nonetheless, her response made me sad.

I realize I often am guilty of the same behavior.  When someone compliments me, I quickly find fault with myself and why their perception is incorrect.  We women tend to do this more often than men.  Yes - it’s a stereotype, I own it.  But, have you ever complimented a man and they enthusiastically say “Thanks!”  They don’t give you 20 reasons why your compliment is inaccurate.

What I want to convey is this:  Let’s compliment each-other, sincerely of course, and see another’s inner and outer beauty.  And, the next time someone compliments you, accept it with graciousness and class by responding with a humble, “Thank you.”