Entries from June 2008 ↓
June 18th, 2008 — Family, Grief, Podcast
Tim Russert, aged 58, died this week of a cornonry emoblism. I always liked him - he seemed like a really nice and decent man. Lolita S. emailed and wanted to know why his death feels so painful to her when she never met him. If you have felt this way, ask yourself: “How is this situation similar to something I’ve experienced before?” Think hard. Your answer will give you THE answer. Get it? Good! : ) I prefer voice mails because it makes the show more interesting, but emails are great too.Listen and leave me a voice mail!
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June 18th, 2008 — Friends, Relationships, Podcast
Amanda from IL left a vm and expressed frustration with her girlfriend - but acknowledged, ”I know it’s me.” Anytime we get a zing from someone - stop, go to the nearest mirror, and look at your reflection. It’s nearly always a projection. What characteristics does that person carry that you either deny in yourself, or feel too inferior to own? It’s normal, you’re human, and - we all do it! Projection is a gift, because it allows us to see what we most need to integrate into our own psyche. It’s all good.
I prefer voice mails because it makes the show more interesting, but emails are great too. Listen and leave me a voice mail!
*Talk To Me! Call me: 678-884-0524, or Listen by cell phone: 1-801-823-1125
Email me: Zanny@DearZanny.com. Do you need relationship advice? Call Zanny. Let’s talk! Help make this show more interesting by leaving a voice mail.
*Disclaimer: Dear Zanny is for entertainment purposes only. Any advice suggestions are never intented to substitute proffessional help. For legal reasons, I will not answer e-mails directly but will use them on a future show so listen and subscribe to have DZ automagically delivered to you.
June 18th, 2008 — Friends, Behaviors, Podcast
How far do we go for our friends? What are the boundaries when we’ve had life long buddies? Yikes, always a tough one. I believe in loyalty to a fault with friends, and covering “their six” in most situations - except when kids are involved. Listen to Beth’s dilema as to whether or not she should testify in court for her friend when she knows her friend has lied…
I prefer voice mails because it makes the show more interesting, but emails are great too. Listen and leave me a voice mail!
*Talk To Me! Call me: 678-884-0524, or Listen by cell phone: 1-801-823-1125
Email me: Zanny@DearZanny.com. Do you need relationship advice? Call Zanny. Let’s talk! Help make this show more interesting by leaving a voice mail.
*Disclaimer: Dear Zanny is for entertainment purposes only. Any advice suggestions are never intented to substitute proffessional help. For legal reasons, I will not answer e-mails directly but will use them on a future show so listen and subscribe to have DZ automagically delivered to you.
June 17th, 2008 — Friends, Behaviors, Family, Divorce, Relationships
EMAIL: Beth wrote:
I love your new podcast!! I heard about it from the Diva Cast and thought I would have a listen. Well today at work, I caught up on all your episodes (Dear Zanny). I can correlate some of your advice to other events in my life (the cat and mouse and projection of your own feelings of yourself onto other), so I thought I would e-mail with my current dilemma.I have a close friend of 20+ years (since grade school) who is going through a very nasty divorce and custody battle. She has lied about a lot of things (to avoid visitation, etc), done things that I don’t agree with her other children, had her boyfriend move in with us and more…We were roommates (her, me and a total of 7 kids, OY!) and we had a falling out about a bunch of stuff and decided to not extend our lease.
Well, when I moved out, someone told the custody evaluator that I moved because her boyfriend moved in (which she tells the courts he is not living there, and not her bf), and that I was frightened for my kids life…. Which is one of the major factors they are considering and now suggesting full custody go to the Dad. Continue reading →
June 13th, 2008 — Relationships, Personal News, Podcast
I’ve been MIA the last two months - I had a cancer recurrence, surgery, then off to a healing retreat in Eagle Nest, NM for a week. I just returned several days ago and have been catching up with my clients. Thanks for hanging in there with me. I recieved multiple emails and voice mails - which really inspire me to keep going! I prefer voice mails because it makes the show more interesting, but emails are great too.Listen and leave me a voice mail!
*Talk To Me! Call me: 678-884-0524, or Listen by cell phone: 1-801-823-1125
Email me: Zanny@DearZanny.com. Do you need relationship advice? Call Zanny. Let’s talk! Help make this show more interesting by leaving a voice mail.
*Disclaimer: Dear Zanny is for entertainment purposes only. Any advice suggestions are never intented to substitute proffessional help. For legal reasons, I will not answer e-mails directly but will use them on a future show so listen and subscribe to have DZ automagically delivered to you.
