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Comment on When I Hate My Hair – I Hate My Life! by Lalita

Lalita — Sat, 02 Mar 2013 18:32:22 +0000

I hate my hair too! I want to get it cut again but my mum has no money ! What do i do!?

Comment on 5 Tips to Help The Ugly Duckling by Ridlin

Ridlin — Mon, 21 Jan 2013 23:13:00 +0000

Beauty is definitely in the eye of the belehdor. Each person on this earth has their own mind that is made up of totally different experiences and beauty beliefs, most coming from culture. It’s really hard to get everyones real opinion unless you literally took everyone on the earth sat them down and asked them the question. EXAMPLES:•A Barbie doll figure is the average North American standard of beauty, but if you ask someone of South American, Caribbean or African decent they’d say that a more full figured woman is beautiful. •I think Angelina Jolie is absolutely the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life, but by boyfriend thinks she is just ok. Even with-in the same culture you will find different levels of beauty opinions. That’s why you should always strive to be the best you that you can be and that’s only if you want to. Everyone else’s opinions’ are just that…opinions…they don’t matter unless you allow them to matter. All in all, peoples’ opinions don’t matter. Beauty is in your eye and you create it for your world. That’s a lot more fun than waiting to be defined by others.

Comment on How Do You Distinguish Between a Crush or Love? by Robin

Robin — Wed, 05 Dec 2012 02:38:19 +0000

I’ve never experienced either, even at age 35.

Comment on External Search for Soul by Robin

Robin — Wed, 05 Dec 2012 02:30:07 +0000

Again, your use of metaphors: “look within”, “work”,”integrate”,”assimilate”, does not describe what the client needs to do. I think this is one reason people don’t pursue it more often. Please describe, without using metaphors, just what “inner work” actually is, otherwise I don’t understand what you’re trying to convey. Can you break it down into types of tasks or actions?

Comment on Therapy is Hard Work for the Patient by Robin

Robin — Wed, 05 Dec 2012 02:16:43 +0000

I’ve been in therapy for over a year and a half.
Would you please explain exactly what about therapy is hard work? I don’t understand the “process” or how it works. I have no idea if I’m getting better or not.
My therapist assumes I know how to “do therapy”, or “use the relationship” but I have no idea what she’s talking about. Most of the time I’m just very confused as to what is happening in sessions.
My understanding of relationships is quite muddled.

Comment on When I Hate My Hair – I Hate My Life! by Ray

Ray — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 10:23:44 +0000

Im a man, i have had long hair for nearly 20 years. Hair-down-to-my ass-type-of-hair. Now i think my days as a hairy halfGod is comming to an end. My hair is thinning, falling off, my ponytail is going limp and squeemish more like a mouse tail. Now i hate myself, my life and everything around me. My confidence has all gone to shait. I dont have any options I cant just grow my hair back like after a bad bob! So shut the fuck up, all of you who still has options! I on the other hand will introduce my scalp to a shawer.. or a bullet

Comment on Eckhart Tolle & Christianity by Jack

Jack — Sun, 04 Nov 2012 00:23:06 +0000

“Myopic Christians.”
Now THAT sums it up perfectly.
I think Christ must be absolutely appauled at the misinterpretaiton of his teachings and the way that today’s evangelical Christian is literally POISONING the true intention of His message. The irony in all of this is that, for all of the preaching that Christians do about “false teachers” (Ekhart being at the top of their List), the joke is really on them, because evangelical Christianity is the EMODIMENT of “FALSE TEACHING”!!!

Comment on How Do You Distinguish Between a Crush or Love? by Shirotora

Shirotora — Tue, 16 Oct 2012 21:35:05 +0000

I’ve got the biggest problem, theres this guy called Phoenix Wright, he looks just like the one inthe games and I have a crush on him ad I think he likes me cuz’ he lets me call him Feenie and everyone else has to call him Phoenix. Does anyone think he likes me? I wanna know so I can tell him how I feel without him never wanting to see me again.

Comment on How Do You Distinguish Between a Crush or Love? by iza

iza — Thu, 27 Sep 2012 18:43:49 +0000

i love this.

Comment on When I Hate My Hair – I Hate My Life! by chriswhjay

chriswhjay — Wed, 05 Sep 2012 23:45:26 +0000

I know exactly what you mean. I’m male and 17, but oh god the hair cut I got today was crazy. I told her what I wanted but she ignored it and cut it how she thinks a boys hair should be cut. I have to face college tomorrow and in dresding the thought. My hair gives me confidence so loving the thought of it tomorrow lots of head massages and everyone pray it grows fast